Wednesday 20 June 2018

#52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks. Week 24 Prompt: 'Fathers Day'

Week 24. Prompt: Father’s Day.

As this prompt is relevant time-wise to the other side of the world, I will transgress a little and type out a poem my Daddy composed in 1950 and added to, in 1981.

1950
We have two rascally daughters, their hair’s tomato blonde
and though they are such mischiefs of them I’m very fond
The first her name is Frances - in years she numbers seven
I’m sure her ways will take her to everywhere bar Heaven
And then there’s little Isabel, so sweet, but knows her mind, 
She has a perpetual twinkle of the most mischievious kind.
These two have one big brother and fight with him in turn
While Billie he looks down his nose, some day no doubt he’ll learn.

1981
Some thirty years have now gone by, in fact I should add one
And these young lives have since matured and guess what they have done.
Those girls both through nursing trained and overseas they went
And Frances since moved far away, there many years has spent
Her voice has quite a Yankie flow and Mum has changed to 'Mom'
and two young Nelsons are the fruit of life across the pond.

Now Isabel though not so far, 3500 miles or so
has too a fine young family as well a handsome beau
These fine young ladies all named Flynn and Dad his name is John
who finds he has to permanently work his fingers to the bone
But happiness is theirs and friends as many as of yore
when Poppy formed that witty verse some thirty years before

Our Bill became the wanderer, through the world he went
we’d like to see him settle down and wish he be content
But Bill has caught this modern craze and computers are his bend
and what life further holds for him we’ll find out in the end
no doubt a fine young lady will capture him in time 
and then the two will gain for each a happy life sublime

Should Nanny Noo and Poppy too now leave this earthly shore
feeling at ease and satisfied to look for what’s in store 
and enter in a lighter sphere with all who’ve gone before.


Dad (1904-1982); Mum (1913- 1996); brother Bill (1941-2004) in Victoria in the 1960's.

Friday 8 June 2018

#52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks. Week 23: 'Going to the Chapel’ Historical Fiction

Week 23 prompt -  'Going to the Chapel'
Historical Fiction. Reminiscence of John Cottam by daughter Elizabeth.

A last dab of powder on her nose and in the mirror Elizabeth sees him again.  Her joy turns to sorrow.  She hears mother’s words, “You carry the looks of your father and ’tis your young brother James who carries his ways.“ 

Twenty-three years gone yet we still miss him so.  I think the suddenness of it broke mother’s heart.  

Father loved working for the Railway.  They say he was a hard worker who learned quickly and lived by God’s law.  A strong man for his height.  Little schooling yet moved right up to engine driver at only 29 years and carried his pride inside.  

That last morning he left with lunch package and thick coat for the Nottingham/Toton run.  Mother always rose early to see him off and as usual, he gave her extra kisses for us when we stirred.

If only he hadn’t got out to check the brakes … if only the other shunting hadn’t happened…

Thomas the fireman said father was always careful and checked things ‘proper’.  They didn’t know eight other wagons were being shunted nearby.  It was so dark and foggy at five o’clock that morning. With God’s help, he may not have seen anything.  But I know he would have heard it.  Too late.  I shiver and cry … all those carriages going over him. 


Not the time to dwell though.   
I will go now to the chapel to be wed.  I know father would be happy for us.  I must keep my thoughts to that.















St Elphin's Church, Warrington, Lancashire, England

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RESOURCES: 
John Cottam: 28 Aug 1831 Winwick, Lancashire, England – 09 Oct 1860 Nottingham Meadows, 
Nottinghamshire, England.  (My Great Great Grand-Uncle – Mum’s Father’s Father’s brother)
Elizabeth Pashley Cottam: 1854 – 1890, daughter of John Cottam and Rebecca Pashley (1831-1869).  Elizabeth married David Rankin Apr-Jun Qtr, 1883 at Warrington Lancs, England.

Newspaper articles: 
Nottinghamshire Guardian, 11 October 1860, “Fatal Accident on the Midland Railway”
Derbyshire Advertiser and Journal, 12 October 1860.  “Fatal Accident at the Nottingham Station”

Photo:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/St_Elphin%27s_Church,_Warrington#/media/File:St_Elphin%27s_Church,_Warrington.jpg